The Stepping Out!!!
Keep in the background of One’s mind the wider perspective that Those whom we are in relationship with, are Souls that we have chosen to reincarnate with for the purpose of healing from past life issues to enable our future progression, and that these issues continue though the Actors may change until we have learned to heal out of it!!! How do you recognize when something is a past life issue that requires healing? When you observe a negative pattern (a constant repetition), then you know that this is the issue you need to heal from. My guides have shown me that it is not simply a case of ‘Another mirroring’ so we may recognise in them that which needs to be healed within us…but that this other Soul is actually carrying a part of our Energetic-Self for us, bringing it to us…for healing!!! To me this is huge, because we try and do the ‘Yes we are all One’ and this other is just mirroring for me and I need to accept this about myself what I don’t like in the other, but regardless (apart from the beautiful few that can) it is hard to separate the negativity that you feel is genuinely the other person from that which they are mirroring for you. For example, even when you accept that a judgemental person is teaching you that this is a trait you possess and you truly accept that, you now see the two of you as being judgmental people (that need to heal) and your view of them personally remains the same. Now here’s the issue with that, as long as you hold this view of them/ your energy energises that focus and your personal relationship with them remains the same. You are unable to separate them from the issue (judgement) itself and because of this they will constantly trigger you emotionally either in judgement itself or as a sign that you have not yet healed this issue as it is constantly showing itself to you, through them. Neither is beneficial and if this type of relationship is maintained the status que remains and no healing takes place. Similarly, if this relationship ends without healing, this issue continues to replay itself in the next relationship untill it does!!! If Another is carrying as opposed to mirroring one’s energy a different process is required for healing. My Guides have given me the following process ‘The Stepping Out’ that can be used by all to not only clear the patterns that you have recognised and to heal them but to also release the other and yourself from the contract you had made pre-birth, to assist each other in the healing of a particular issue (regardless of the issue). This healing process does not require a statement of forgiveness nor any physical interaction with the other. It is an energetic process. The Stepping Out!!! State your intention to heal a past life issue…name the person you are/were in a negative pattern with. Take three deep breaths; in... hold...out...to the count of four to relax and bring more oxygen into the body. Ask Mother Earth to ground you to her Heart, visualize/state Her Light (green, pink, or blue of Her oceans) coming up through your feet, up through your body, down through your arms, out through your fingers, up through the neck and out through the top of your head. Let this beautiful colour/colours flow down on the outside of your body, taking all excess and stagnant energy with it, and return to the earth. Visualize/state roots growing from your feet deep into the ground. Now Visualize/State…White Light (the Light of your chosen Faith or Universe) coming down through the top of your head…down through your body and into the earth…releasing… balancing…attuning…adjusting the vibrational spin of your chakras (energy centres) and filling all empty space with Divine Love as it moves through your being. Flowing out from your feet to form a complete Orb of White Light all around you, holding you in Love and allowing only Love to enter this Sacred Space. You are ready, time to heal the past… but know before you begin that the energy of Any other cannot enter this space; this Orb of Love is attuned to your personal frequency and your frequency only!!! Begin: Visualize/state the person you are in dis-harmony with, now standing outside your Orb of White Light (facing you or not) and say, “I Call upon the part of Me that is Within You to Step Out!!!”. See/state…a complete copy of you as you physically are now, stepping out of the Other Person. Say nothing to this image but turn to the person and say, “I now release you from the contract between us and from carrying it for me. I now return all energy that is part of you to you!!! Then instruct this person to leave this space!!!” Turn now to the image of yourself and pour Light (Divine Love in whatever colour you are drawn to) from your Heart to your Heart. When you see this energetic image of you filled with Light (or you feel it’s done), open your arms and welcome this part of you, that YOU came here to heal, into the Orb of White Light and back inside of you. Do not question it, judge it, berate it, name it, but unconditionally accept this denied/rejected part of you back and only focus on it with Love…because regardless Love changes everything!!! Know that You have not only healed but restored apart of yourself, this is where the innate desire inside of humans to find someone to complete them comes from, and the search is complete only when the person is whole again, by being fully healed.